excited
4 Mar 2009
It’s so much fun, to be purely happy for someone else, fore their happiness has nothing to do with my own, and still.
One of my all times best friends is getting married tomorrow night. I’m so happy for her. Honestly. She met this really great guy, who adores her like she deserves to be adored, and they’re going to have their own new family starting tomorrow.
You can call me old fashioned as much as you like, I just think it’s wonderful. Everyone today are so petrified of getting married an “settling down” and I really can’t see why. How come it’s not obvious that if I have the man I love most and know I want to spend the rest of my life with, then I shouldn’t be afraid to marry him? what’s wrong with being married?
I know all about divorce rates of today. Dam, I already know divorced couples that are my age. It can happen to everyone at any time. I still don’t think of it as a good enough reason for not even trying. That looks just dumb to me.
So there she is, my best friend, getting married. The one who always hated them all, said that she would never commit, bla-bla-bla… if it happened to her, and even I changed my mind about this whole thing too, then it’s true. It can really happen to anyone. Honestly.




Mar 04, 2009 @ 22:50:10
congrats to ur friend and to u for not letting the cynics and fearful among us deter u from marriage and love. i too am old-fashioned and believe love can last and that marriage can work … despite what everyone else says.
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:42:52
thanks
and welcome to my blog !
Mar 05, 2009 @ 16:27:16
thanks